To find out where you belong in life and find your place, you first need to examine what it is you want. Everyone wants something different and you should always trust your gut feeling and follow that.
Sometimes we stray away from the things we want most and allow ourselves to become lost. This can happen in an instant and continue on for years and years. You will know if where you are today is where you really want to be or not. There isn’t some magic formula to determine this, it’s up to you to decide.
If your still having trouble think about what you wanted when you were younger. Think about your dreams and visions that you have. Think about all the things that you see other people with and you want for yourself. Think about what motivates you. Consider everything before setting out and finding your place.
If your not in the place you want to be my next question for you is “how are you going to get there?” I don’t need a really technical answer, just a short plan with some long term goals attached. If you planned on moving to New York when you were younger and just lost sight, then set you long term goal to move there and start saving money for it now.
Now matter what it is you want to do you can always start making progress. Start out small with some minor adjustments and put in a little effort. Then work your way up to bigger and more life changing events. You can do this no matter who you are or what your circumstances are. Good Luck!